A couple weekends ago José and I were in Amsterdam and being the socially adept people that we are we were chatting to a guy that we met and he asked how long José and I had been together.  When I replied to say "...just under two years...", he seemed genuinely shocked that we still... Continue Reading →

I've noticed something about myself in the last few months that is entirely new and quite disturbing - I've become a bystander. In a recent conversation; I reacted very strongly but also like a caged animal - as in, I wasn't able to be cogent about my reaction and therefore a little voice inside me... Continue Reading →

You know, lately I find myself repeating, "I don't understand..." to myself countless times during the day and seemingly more than I remember doing so before! What I am finding lately, is that the general reaction to that statement, should I ever dare to utter it out loud that is, is one of fear and... Continue Reading →

So yesterday Jose and I really talked things through (I didn't even watch Game of Thrones - but I wont pull at that thread right now!) and it really was helpful, and also positive... we seem more able to move forward now. Naturally there were a few bumps along the way but all in all... Continue Reading →

So in the last two weeks I have been given feedback that has been so off the wall that it has really disoriented me and as it has turned out, because I am such a reflective person (read sometimes too damn reflective), on both occasions it happened to be that the people giving me this... Continue Reading →

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