The universe is wonderful in its way of finding balance in all things. Recently I have been very imbalanced and it's really gotten me to thinking about our increasingly transactional society.  There is always a trade-off, or a least the expectation of a trade off.  Lord knows, I am no fan of expectations. Bizarrely, what... Continue Reading →

As toilets in bars go, I like the ones in All Bar One on Houndsditch in London.  It’s close to the office and has the perfectly proportioned tables that bars in this part of the city often have…  allowing tipsy lunch time office workers to wag their tongues with abandon, freeing themselves from their corporate... Continue Reading →

Everyone will draw their line of sand in a different place. Some things that I consider absolute deal breakers probably wouldn't even show up on another persons radar and the same is true in reverse. Cultures and values are very important to me and such is my nature that these span my entire life.  Whilst... Continue Reading →

The inspiration for todays post is somewhat offbeat, albeit characteristic with my nature.  Yesterday Jose and I sat home and had a super lazy day because I am on Gardening Leave whilst waiting to start my new job and his Doggy Daycare hasn't gotten back into full swing after the holidays; we decided to watch,... Continue Reading →

This last couple of weeks has been particularly rough, and now more than I ever I am glad that I have this blog, the inner dialogue that facilitates it and that I have someone like José in my life that will listen to me no matter what (even when he doesn't really get what I'm... Continue Reading →

I've been composing this for a while now, and the reason is that I have had to recompose myself a few times during the process.  I make no secret that I often feel out of sync with society, sometimes I find myself trying to see things from so many perspectives that I lose my own... Continue Reading →

It's been a little while since I have written because we have been on quite a long vacation in the United States - California, specifically San Francisco.  It was a great time and an epic adventure and we went with a friend - and let me tell you; could it ever have been proven to... Continue Reading →

Recently I have been helping a friend of mine go through a break-up.  Him and his boyfriend had been together for a little over a year and their relationship was one of extremes.  This culminated in a police escort last Saturday for the one that is not my friend to get his things and move... Continue Reading →

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